Before we got
married, Leo and I already purchased a house and right after our wedding, we
stayed in our new house. It was such a joy to run your own household,
being independent is one benefit, but there were lots of things that we were
not prepared off when we started. Some of these are:
1) BILLS. Form house
amortization, to electricity bills, water bills, phone bills, to a lot
more. When I still lived with my parents, I don’t need to worry if we get
our electricity or water connection disconnected or palayasin kami in our
house, because bills are magically being paid.
Now that I run my
own household, aside from the fact that we need to budget for all the bills we
need to pay, we have to plan when to pay it as well – scheduling it ahead of
time to ensure we don’t get overdue – at maputulan L
2) MEALS.
Planning and preparing meals had also been another thing to think
about when running a household. When I was still single and lived with my
parents, I would often complain to my mom: “Fish na naman!” or “Bakit, gulay
lang ba ang meron sa palengke?”. Now that I run my own household and
planning meals for my family, I would often think, “Ang onti pala ng food
choices…”.
Leo and I have now devised WEEKLY MEAL PLANNER. We sat together once a week and spend 30mins planning the
meal for the next week. This also helps us in our weekly grocery (buying
the things we need ONLY).
3) CHORES. Never ending
household chores: washing clothes, cleaning the house, washing dishes, and a
lot LOT more. Before, I would throw used clothes in the laundry basket,
place my used dishes in the sink, sleep even though the house is unclean –
because thanks to my mom, everything was taken cared of.
Now that we are
running our own household, I still do the same – thanks to ate Marlyn! Haha!
4) GROCERIES. Before, my
weekends are spent shopping. My mom would sometimes joke, “Linggo lingo
ka nasa mall ah, hindi ka din nawawala sa sale, may attendance ka ba dun?”
Now weekends are spent for groceries. With a baby on the
house, the ref should be filled with his needs; our freezer should have food so
we won’t go hungry. Simple things missing like salt, sugar, onion, could
mess up everything. Grocery budget is also one thing we need to think
about. We can’t buy a lot of things but just exactly the things we need.
5) APPLIANCES and FURNITURES.
These are the things which are constant when I am growing up. I could also
abuse these stuffs (watching TV while playing computer games; throwing the
remote control when I’m in a bad mood, etc.)
Now these are the things I need to fill my house so it would look
complete. We have to save up to buy our own TV, sofa, refrigerator,
etc. so abusing these stuffs is a no-no for me.
These are some of
the things you need to be prepared of when you start your own household.
Just thinking about all these stuffs, makes me want to say my mom was a wonder
woman to ensure we don’t get stressed out on this. I wish I could
duplicate her efforts so Neo will have the same, if not a better, life than
what I grew up on.
Ciao!
Baby Neo’s Mama