Remember last week I posted this question
with the title: Jack n Jill Wafrets Commercial, and I told you I asked a
popular mommy blogger to answer this as well?
She did – and she has a very wonderful insight. After reading her emails and post, I realized
that she’s right; you will have room in your heart for loving more kids.
Go to Topaz Mommy’s blog to read her
beautiful post: Reader question: How can I love another baby when I love myonly child so much?
Ciao!
Baby Neo’s Mama
ohhh, you're the mommy that frances blogged about! i think your fears are normal though. but take into heart what she advised and loving another kid equally will come naturally for you once it happens.
ReplyDeletethanks! In reading her post, emails and replies from comments, I could say that a mommy's heart is so big it could fit a lot of people in it. :)
DeleteI'm not sure ... but right now, I love kids. I'm single and I'm young but kids are so adorable! I'm not sure though how I will feel towards other kids when I already have one.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was single, I love children din, especially babies. But there are times na pagnagtatantrums ang baby, I get annoyed. but guess what? when I became a mom, pag may baby nagtatantrums, even not mine, I am now worried baka there is something wrong with him/her. mommy instinct. :)
DeleteAs an only child, I cannot claim to have any experience with parents' favoritism so the concept is a bit alien to me. Since I have just one kid at the moment (and quite a handful at that I must say), I am not seeing any problems like that as of yet. I dunno why, but I feel like I'll be able to love any other incoming children from my womb in the same capacity, if in a different way.
ReplyDeleteI think I will too... i just worry too much LOL. Thanks for dropping by :)
DeleteI can understand you sis..Actually, I am also thinking of it minsan na pano pag nasundan na si Ivy, pano ko e hhandle ung love, attention and everything.
ReplyDeletekakaloka lang pagiging worrier ko di ba? haha sana pagnasundan si Neo and Ivy, ready na tayo to love the other kids din :)
DeleteI feel you sis. Same sentiments. Sometimes it feels like the whole world revolves around them and parang ang hirap nga to manage the time, love and attention. Don't worry too much though. A supermom, like you, knows best! :)
ReplyDeletethanks, sis! :)
DeleteOhh.. I can relate a bit. My first daughter is almost 5 years old and here I am.. giving birth to our 2nd one. So the question to myself is.. how am I going to divide my love to the two of them? Wahh.. aral aral din.
ReplyDeletesis, don't divide the love daw, multiply it ;)
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